Are YOU capable of ‘making’ people abusive…
If you keep wondering why they seem to be super wonderful with EVERYONE else…except YOU…or you seem to get to experience a different side of them in public than you do behind closed doors…
They are doing THAT with intention…
They are trying to make you feel a certain type of way…
They want you to feel that YOU are the one to be blamed for them treating you badly…because…look see they seem to be so amazingly nice to EVERYONE else…except YOU!
If they succeed in making you feel that way you will naturally put in more effort to make them feel better about themselves.
THAT’S the goal…
But THAT is not your job…to make them feel better about themselves…
ALWAYS remember…
You are not capable of making someone ‘abusive’…you are not THAT talented…they come that way…fully cocked and loaded.
