Living My New Reality
Transitions...life's full of them....If you want to compare your life to others...you have to also be willing to take FULL ownership of the reasons for their grey hairs and wrinkles.My suggestion...Walk in your own damn shoes...Someone else's shoe size might be a tight uncomfortable fit...or they might fall off your feet.Like the 10th Commandment says...Thou shall not covet your neighbor’s
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Freedom of Speech...But ONLY if you agree with ME...Or else...I will fire you...Get you fired...Sue you...Make fun of you...Humiliate you...Demean you...Jeer and laugh and dance and brag at the misfortune that I have caused YOU...If you call me out on things that I have actually done...then I will act offended, lie, deflect, pout and throw a tantrum like a toddler.No
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Your Home...Your temple...When you find yourself intermingling and inviting random Devils into your 'home'...you gots to sit down and put yourself in timeout and think about where you are...how and why you got to this place in your life...YOU have invited the Devil himself into your life to disrupt your 'home'...YOU have handed your keys to an emotionally manipulative thief
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I love how you make me feel...If you are looking to feel love reciprocated from a narcissist...they are not capable.They are looking for validation from their conquests.***They love how you make them feel***And they will tell you that...in some way...but that's that!THAT is not a declaration of love...they are telling you that you are validating their needs.If you are raised
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Ghosting....By definition....The Art of Ghosting is a technique of making plans/friendships/partnerships and then abruptly ending communication...dissappearing without explanation.This behavior is juvenile and reveals a lack of emotional maturity, empathy, and healthy communication skills in the person doing the ghosting. It can be a sign of avoidance, fear of conflict, and a tendency to prioritize one's own comfort over the feelings
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Envy....The desire to have a quality, possession, or other desirable attributes belonging to someone else.For a Narcissist it's the emotion they operate from...A pathological state of envy.The pathology of envy with a Narcissist makes them unable to stop the cycles of abuse...till they destroy the target emotionally because they are envious of them.The target is forced to go full no
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Are YOU capable of 'making' people abusive...If you keep wondering why they seem to be super wonderful with EVERYONE else...except YOU...or you seem to get to experience a different side of them in public than you do behind closed doors...They are doing THAT with intention...They are trying to make you feel a certain type of way...They want you to feel
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The slip and slide game.....If you can cheat on a person you sleep next to...someone you supposedly share your life with, breed kids, open bank accounts, invest in real estate, swap saliva and intermingle DNA...how can ANYONE possibly trust you with ANYTHING!Deceptive impulsive decision making patterns overflow and slip and slide into ALL your life actions...it permeates EVERYTHING!If you can
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Your body shows red flags....The longer you stay with a psychological abuser...the more physically sick you will get...and look.They fuck with your mind first...while you are too busy trying to think straight and keep your head above water.Any prolonged emotional disturbance or discomfort will eventually show up in your physical form as an ailment.Most physical ailments are caused by prolonged
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No shade in the shadows...A narcissist keeps exes around and revisit them...in rounds...that's the cycle they are stuck in...permanently.Round and round we go...where we stop nobody knows.You will discover you are on a merry-go-round with other unaware exes and other random candidates they pick up along the way.If you are non-compliant...you are pushed off the horse and replaced by another...and
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