Living My New Reality
The good experiences are just that...good experiences...they become our reference guides to identify future good experiences. If you had good role models in your childhood you have a reference to what is a good experience.Unfortunately if you had no good role models in your childhood...you are flying blind with only bad experiences to use as references to guide you. A
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An object(person) being consistent or constant.How do you know if you lack object constancy?With a lack of object constancy, one may find it difficult to retain positive feelings about someone once they make mistakes or have disagreements within relationships. “If you do something they don't like or are unhappy with or they notice a flaw, you suddenly become all-bad, and
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Most emotional abusers will NEVER apologize...because they don't really care about what they did to you, how they made you feel or how it affects your soul.Some will but ONLY when they are cornered...or it benefits them.Is this a one time event or is this behavior a pattern...Is THIS who this person is.You get to decide...The ones who refuse to
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A Netflix must see...For people who wonder how a person can spend decades with an emotional manipulator and not leave...This is how....This movie is a typical portrayal of how a person can get trapped in a horrendous situation without it being obviously horrendous.Even you as the viewer will not recognize something is 'wrong' until you realize something is very wrong.And
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Are you bothered or triggered when you are called a Narcissist?Why do you think you are you being called that...Are you a liar, entitled, lacking empathy, superficial, arrogant, disloyal, unfaithful, dismissive, rude, unkind, egocentric, emotionally manipulative, controlling, aggressive explosive temper, attention seeking, stingy as fuck...duality...abusive and rude indoors...but a pure pleasure to be around in public.These are ALL only personality
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Some interesting tidbits of where we are at in life...Not for EVERYONE...Unless you share my interests😉Yours may be politics, philandering, phucking, ponies puppies or porn...I have this😜✌️Each to his own...God for all.This is the END of a very long life cycle...Hurray!This is our Saturn return for a lot of us in our age group. We ALL have a Saturn return
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Don't allow people make you diverge or contradict your true character...If they do...you are not meant to be with each other...permanently...You met them for a purpose...You will meet a lot of them...pay attention.These people are your lessons...Find people who bring out the best in you...not your worst.These people are your blessings.Ironically...your lessons will help you recognize your blessings.
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For my soul sister who is on the same journey as me...but at a different juncture.Your emotions are valid and much needed. I hope this gives you something to hold on to ❤️✌️Anger....Anger is a Secondary Emotion.Typically, one of the primary emotions, like fear or sadness, can be found underneath the anger.Fear includes things like anxiety and worry, and sadness
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People seem to think that those who write blogs and share material on fb or other platforms think of themselves as not having personal issues or are better than others...That is absolutely NOT true!I can only speak for myself....EVERYTHING that I write about I have experienced or am still dealing and healing from.I am able to put into words what
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I was listening to 3 four year olds talking to each other...something nonsensical...about grandma and a basket ball.The youngest one then says...make it make sense.Isn't that profound...I know he was just repeating something he has heard at home...But that was so thought provoking...Most things we go through in life...doesn't make sense. It doesn't...and you cannot make it make sense because
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