Living My New Reality
You know there always has to be one or two or three of these ANYWHERE you go...I am grateful to live in the US of A...and don't take it for granted.Having lived and traveled to many other parts of the world I have a true comparison of what life really is like outside this here United States. So being here
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Someone else's mother, father, brother, sister, child, wife, husband, lover, employee, pet, plant, in-law, out-law, friend, enemy, frenemy...THAT is not who YOU are...THAT is just a title or a label...until proven otherwise.At this point I am almost none of those things...some proven...and some otherwise.So does this make me NOTHING?***Asking for a deeper connection than a label does not make you
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Am I the lesson or are they...Does it matter...It really doesn't...The other participants don't even matter to me...It was the repetitiveness of the experience that mattered to me...The lesson was learned...by me...after being repeated over and over...by me.What we don't learn...we will repeat...in this lifetime or the next.We ALL learn differently at our own pace...With some people it's never a
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Once you mirror back to the Narcissist their behaviors...Game OVER!Once you call them out on their behaviors...Game OVER!Playing chess with someone who's playing checkers...Game OVER!Wrong game!We are not even playing the same game...Once you call a Narcissist out...You get called crazy!(Text book Narcissist)If I'm crazy...I'd rather be called crazy than being called a Narcissist!There's help for being crazy...There's absolutely no
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Don't discredit the importance of the Narcissists of this world...They are here to demonstrate to us a realistic view of what people can really be like.Most of us are roaming around this world wearing rose colored glasses...we have an unrealistic naive view of how this world really operates...We ALL come across them but cannot recognize them...because they ONLY target a
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Staying attached to a Narcissist gets you wrapped up in their bad Karma that they themselves created and collected along the way.If you hang with a criminal you get to share in their criminal Karma...same difference.They completely overtake your mental energy early on in the situationship by introducing bullshit into your life...lots of it.If your mind is busy dealing with
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Jezebel was a Phoenician royal whose identity and name have come to signify a power-hungry, violent, and whorish woman.The Male Jezebel is a fictitious name for the same kind of spirit. He cunningly hides behind a warm visage of virtuousness but he will end up using and disposing of his prey with his intricate tools of charm and deception. Spirit
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No Contact with the Narcissists in your life is a permanent lifestyle decision in order to maintain your physical and emotional health. It is an imperative necessity for your healing...so is a period of solitude to 'hear' yourself think clearly so you can neutralize the cognitive dissonance that their emotional manipulations created.I try to understand ALL perspectives...MINE had to take
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The four types of coping mechanisms we use to deal with traumatic experiences are fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.By definition...Fawning, or people-pleasing response is a coping mechanism individuals develop to avoid conflict, pacify their abusers, and create a sense of safety.You will hear people pleasers often say things like...I cannot say no...I like being nice...This is just me...This is who
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By definition...Loyalty is a strong feeling of support or allegiance.If people you know or barely know gossip around you about others...be very mindful that they are most likely capable of gossiping about you with others.Be aware and beware of the type of person who starts the conversation with...I'm not into gossiping or drama...but...here you go...verbal vomit🗣🗣🗣Obviously fully invested in spreading
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