Chaos makers…
If you are in an environment or with a person/people who bring chaos…it’s a lot of noise but it serves a purpose.
Chaos makers force you to see what is not working and forces you to make a change.
They are here to destroy your faulty foundation.
A narcissist is such a chaos maker…
They are not a savior…
They are not a rescuer…
They are not a martyr…
They are not your husband wife lover father mother employer employee child etc…
They just occupy that role…
They are not capable of making your dreams come true…or even loving you.
They destroy EVERYTHING they touch…
They are not a problem solver…they bring chaos.
THEY are THE CHAOS!
Much like a tornado 🌪
A tornado levels everything to ground level…so you are forced to rebuild.
NOTHING with them is what you would call a ‘success’.
It’s actually the opposite…
It’s a living nightmare…
And they need minions and supporters…sycophants swam around them to uphold their own agenda.
They surround themselves with people who will help carry their bunders for them…their lies need a lot of backup support.
If you don’t make a change YOU will be stuck in this chaos…with them.
One on one…
In a community…
Nationwide…
Global…
Chaos is chaos!
They do something more insane each day…you are trying to wrap your head on what they did today…while still confused about yesterday.
THAT’S how they keep you spinning out of control.
***You should be focused on how to redeem and save yourself…instead***
If it’s an intimate partner, business partner, friend…ANY relationship…they are doing nothing for YOUR benefit.
They use lying, cheating, betrayal, gaslighting, demeaning, word salad, bullying techniques…to bring chaos to cover up their profound limitations.
Strangely enough…chaos makers are a necessary ingredient in this life…
If it wasn’t for them…we wouldn’t move from our comfort zone.
And YOU will stay in chaos until YOU change your circumstances.
Always remember…a narcissist is not going to be your saving grace…they are a catalyst to help you save yourself from a catastrophe that is THEM!
Personal experience plus more.
