Text book…beginning…middle and the end….
Narcissists are text book offenders…
Narcissists NEVER extend a genuine apology.
They NEVER take responsibility or accountability.
They will admit to NOTHING even after they get called out.
If they admit to ANYTHING they are claiming responsible…and THAT ain’t EVER gonna happen because then they will have to deal with repercussions.
Their fragile broken ego cannot handle repercussions.
You made me do it…
She made me do it…
They made me do it…is as close as they will get to admitting ‘fault’…and that too isn’t taking responsibility…that’s throwing blame.
And I think most of you have already heard that bit of denial.
At home or Global…same!
You have heard it.
They are text book abusive offenders…their targets reactions are also text book…and their end…as text book as it comes.
And ‘repercussions’ will happen regardless.
Their end is usually the same…public exposure and humiliation…their ONE BIG FEAR!
Probably enforced by a woman/women they called ‘crazy’ who will bring them down.
And THAT is why we can study this personality disorder…because it’s text book…which means they have a predictable pattern of dysfunctional abusive behaviors that are actually described in a text book…The DSM-5.
You are dealing with a mental disorder not a ‘human’…try not to take it personally…although very hard to do because it is happening to YOU…personally.
Moral of this story….
Personally…Pay attention…red flags appear real quick…first one is usually a lie and a disproportionate reaction when called out…they are testing your flimsy boundaries.
If their disproportionate reaction startles you…scares you into apologizing to them for THEM lying to you…you just failed your first test…you just got caught in a bad romance net…and there you will be devoured, drowned and destroyed…and the lies and abuse will continue and accelerate.
Don’t date them…marry them or vote for them…unless you want to get mentally and physically ill…turn your life into a shit show…and be called crazy and stupid.
***If you can’t be a good example, at least be a horrible warning***
And THAT is ultimately what they are…a horrible warning you will heed for the rest of your golden life.
TRUTH is also text book and cannot be redacted, removed, edited, censored, deleted, and revised…it prevails and stands the test of time…Personally… Globally…Universally…
Same!
If a person is a liar and delusional and not based in reality…you cannot force them to deal with reality.
The TRUTH will stand the test of time.
Hopefully it just remains a bad memory but a great lesson.
Let’s MAKE THIS LESSON GREAT!
***I didn’t go through this HELL for no reason***
