Ghosting….
By definition….
The Art of Ghosting is a technique of making plans/friendships/partnerships and then abruptly ending communication…dissappearing without explanation.
This behavior is juvenile and reveals a lack of emotional maturity, empathy, and healthy communication skills in the person doing the ghosting.
It can be a sign of avoidance, fear of conflict, and a tendency to prioritize one’s own comfort over the feelings of others.
This is very commonplace in the dating world…
Ghosting was created by cowards for cowards…
As it is…online dating is not the safest way of meeting genuine people…it also supports cowardly behaviors hiding behind a screen.
Ghosting is just as common even in old school dating methods…
Cowards…Vanishing without a trace…
***BIG red flag of a very toxic behavioral pattern with many tentacles***
In this day and age of high technology…lack of or abruptly stopping communication means ONLY ONE thing…
Ghosting!!!!
So don’t make excuses for them or accept theirs…
unless they were kidnapped and used as a drug mule by the cartel and all their fingers were cut off.
Ghosting is a maneuver used by a certain category of the population…the low-life category…to drum up attention and concern from the target by suddenly dissappearing on them.
This is a preferred way of narcissists existing partnerships…duck and run…so they can avoid accountability.
It’s deceitful and manipulative…and a pretty low down technique…but effective if you are not aware.
We should appreciate ghosters…
They make your decision simple because they make it for you…
They eliminate themselves…
They help you not waste time…
Firstly…ghosters are cowards, immature, juvenile and lacking in emotional intelligence…
THAT⏫️ cluster of adjectives tells you a lot about who they truly are…so don’t disregard it.
Secondly…it’s like the trash walked itself out.
Turdly…and most importantly…
When they come back around…and they usually do…to check kya hogaya…mostly pretending like nothing occurred…leave them at their self-created dumpster fire.
This is the best case scenario for YOU…
No clean up for you…
The trash walked itself out…and set itself on fire.
