Memorabilia are a Psychopaths best friend….
By definition…
Predators that save memorabilia from their victims are primarily serial sexual offenders and sadistic killers, who use these items as “souvenirs” or “trophies” to relive their crimes and reinforce a sense of power or invincibility.
Who takes 1000s and 1000s and 1000s of pictures and videos of what is clearly evident of child pornography and child and woman abuse and depravity.
Two reasonable reasons…
BOTH are applicable here…
First…someone who is fiercely proud of what he is doing…and finds his perversion deeply gratifying so much so he needs to save a recollection of memories for nostalgia and depravity sake.
Second…and what is actually happening presently…now posthumously.
Collecting evidence…
‘Just in case’ evidence…
‘Blackmail evidence’…now from the grave.
Psychopaths are not stupid people…they are mentally sick and deranged…but not stupid.
They do things strategically to cover their arse anticipating an outcome.
ALL Psychopaths keep mementos…for posterity sake.
Look at the record of ANY Psychopaths in history.
They got caught with and because of ‘mementos’.
There was ALWAYS a collection of victim ‘memorabilia’ of their conquests.
Sometimes it’s crude pictures, clothing, jewelry, a freezer full of heads or bodies buried in a cellar or backyard…sometimes it’s a drawer full of ‘used’ dildos.
If you inquire about it…
‘I can’t throw those away…they belong to my ex-wife’.
Awwww…how precious…
lovely memories…but…a drawer full of ‘used’ DILDOS.
First…if you need so many dildos to hold up that fort there’s a much BIGGER problem here.
Second…and more likely the REAL truth…a drawer full of ‘used’ dildos is a ‘collection’ of victim memorabilia!
THAT’S a ‘used’ dildo graveyard of past victims!
Completely aware they belonged to ‘other’ women but didn’t know what to do with this information…also very afraid to raise an inquiry.
But if you know me…I raised an inquiry!
Inquiries of ANY kind resulted in pushing me and yelling to get out of the house, threats of calling the police, thrown out from the car…this one resulted in him trying to run me over with his car.
Not only were the behaviors insane…the reactions upon being called out were always over-the-top…beyond insane.
THAT’S done intentionally…so YOU don’t bring it up again.
Shocked and traumatized beyond comprehension.
It took me years to mentally process…unravel…make sense out of nonsense and find a way to heal from this ENTIRE toxic experience with this mentally deranged individual.
The biggest question that remained was not why such a person existed…but why I chose to continue to exist with such a person…even though I could see foul stuff occurring.
Psychopaths do NOT do ‘inquiries’ without dreadful repercussions…as you have already seen with Psychopath-in-chief.
Memorabilia may be a psychopaths best friend…but inquiries are NOT!
There WILL be harsh cruel punitive repercussions.
In hindsight….
Collection of such type of ‘mementos’ is a clear sign of a much deeper dysfunction and sick compulsion.
It’s not like collecting postage stamps or photographs as a hobby.
If you find yourself in such a situation…YOU…need to get out and stay the fuck away from a person with such a sick deranged ‘hobby’.
Like roaches…when there’s a graveyard of ‘used’ dildos there’s also a lot more skeletons in that drawer.
Take your toys and your still attached head and say hallelujah and leave 🙌
In hindsight…
I also wish I didn’t gaslight my own intuition despite all the red flags hitting me in the face.
The more I learned about this mental disorder the more I felt grateful for being rescued.
When I say I was rescued from a fate much worse than anticipated…by God’s Good Graces…I truly was…AIR LIFTED UP FROM HELL!
If someone so grandiose tells you that dating him was like winning the lottery and you would not understand their ‘lifestyle’ and then you find a drawer full of ‘memorabilia’.
Believe your own eyes and what he just said…and run!
NO NEED FOR FURTHER INQUIRIES!
You can imagine why the urgency for filling a r/o against me to shut me up!
To most of you this is just an amusing story because you don’t have a dog in the fight.
We ONLY get ‘involved’ when WE feel butt hurt!
I am very vocal and passionate EVERYFUCKINGDAY against abuse of ANY kind because I have a dog in this fight…
ME!
Plus…I prefer not to be a ‘memento’ in a graveyard of any type…
