Same shit…different target…
How narcissists leave a relationship…
The same way they entered one…by using a third party to facilitate the end.
They have already found another ‘plus one’ before they abandon this ‘relationship’…or will recycle an ex…THAT’S a requirement because that move packs an anticipated humiliation punch to you if you are immediately replaced..they also cannot be alone for long without constant attention, adulation and validation.
I’m using the word ‘relationship’ loosely…this has NEVER been a relationship…this a just a temporary validation of their insecurities.
But ALL narcissists are cowards…they make others do their dirty work.
For example…
When they initially target you…they are doing so to provoke jealousy in the last target and also to demean them into an anger response.
They want them to take on the responsibility of ending the relationship…so they can then call them jealous and crazy.
In the mean time…they are grooming the present target with crazy stories about the last one.
This strategy has a two fold intent…first as his new focus YOU will try your best not to be like that ‘crazy’ ex and second you will feel empathy for how he’s always such a sad misunderstood victim.
Just remember he is also telling you how you will be treated…when in turn he will do the same to you.
Rinse and repeat.
They are the lowest form of scum because they prey on your psyche…your very soul, mind, self, spirit, ego, and essence.
THIS is their cycle of abuse.
In between it’s a constant shit show of mental gymnastics for you to just make it from one day to another.
They also invariably fuck with the wrong one.
I think y’all are experiencing this cycle of abuse from your Scum in-chief…right now.
He’s in the process of demeaning and discarding his flying monkeys by humiliating them publicly…including the ‘stupid’ American people…and ALL the ‘stupid’ countries who do not agree with his bullshit.
Now EVERYONE but him is blamed and responsible for HIS fuckup.
Some of those poor bastards have no choice but to abandon their jobs for their mental health or they will be demoted and have to hide on a military base scared for their life…indefinitely.
Same shit…different scale and different target.
