Living My New Reality
Not having the chance to say goodbye is rough...Just like forgiveness...it's for ourselves...not for the dearly departed nor for those who have departed intentionally from our lives.Having a chance to say goodbye is for the living because we will never know how it affected them...at that final hour.That's our own guilt...But my imagination still troubles meMy own guilt still troubles
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Over the last decade or so...at least for me...I've lived in it...apparently I've lived in it my whole life 😐Now...it's EVERYWHERE...On fb on YouTube on Google...on every media.It's almost turned into a fad...We calling someone a Narcissist and then they calling us a narcissist...it's like a kid's game...you stupid...no you stupid...no you stupid. Actually both quite stupid...One for thinking they
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If you want a Narcissist to be FULLY invested in you and your life...Break up with them!Strange...NOT for a Narcissist!Narcissists pay more attention to ALL their exes and their lives...after the funeral and burial⚰️ALL their exes are now also YOUR exes...like sister wives...but in the afterlife.During the situationship, you will have the privilege to associate with ALL the exes...Plus...you also
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Loyal people choose to be loyal...EVERYTIME...Loyalty is an inherent quality...you either have it or you don't. You can't grow it buy it or fake it...and you certainly can't steal it.Hanging with disloyal and dishonest people is exhausting...It's like walking in a minefield...blindfolded...anticipating an explosion.*Loyalty is a virtue and a gift from the giver to the recipient...so treat it as such***Loyalty
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Narcissists are not born that way...they are created through their traumas...just like ALL of us...just like any other criminals...and perpetuated by their own deviant behaviors...NOT the same as us. There is a fine line and a few traits that separates us from being a thief or any kind of trickster or criminal. Lack of integrity, level of laziness and desperation...plus
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Holding space.....By definition...means being physically, mentally, and emotionally present for someone. It means putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel their feelings. An important aspect of holding space is managing judgment while you are present.Caveat:You don't wait around and hold space for people to 'behave better'...you leave...and let them learn to behave better on their own
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From a distance....Dealing with a Narcissist is like being on a bipolar roller-coaster ride.Up and down, in and out, back and forth, to and fro...Sometimes, it's like dealing with unpredictable inclement weather...hot and cold, freeze and defrost...or lots of blowing of hot air...like a tornado. Sometimes, it's like a wishy washy laundry spin cycle...tumble dry...banging your head in the dryer...like
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Mirror Mirror on the Wall.... Once you mirror back to the Narcissist their behaviors...Game OVER!Once you call them out on their repugnant behaviors...Game OVER!Once you call a Narcissist out...You get called crazy!(Text book Narcissist)The good news...There's help for being 'crazy'...There's absolutely no help for being a Narcissist!Calling someone out on their bullshit is not crazy...but it's bound to happen. Narcissists
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When you care too much about your public reputation you will create a fake public persona...that is absolutely nothing like you...because you have put more importance on what people think about you than who you truly are.You can actually forget who you are and learn to live the lie that you created for yourself.You learn to believe your own lie...you
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Your experience with a Narcissist is dependent on the role YOU play in their life.You can spend as little as a month or as long as multiple decades before you find out whats really going on around you...if you ever do.You could spend your whole life in complete oblivion. That is one reason why people find it difficult to believe
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