Living My New Reality
The control element...Ask yourself...Have you EVER...in your entire life...lived in fear!Most immigrants have...so we are more aware of what tyranny looks like.All you German immigrants should be familiar. Fear of speaking, fear of no medicals, fear of poverty, fear of civil unrest, fear of unemployment, fear of prices so high you won't be able to manage food, gas or shelter,
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Chaos makers...If you are in an environment or with a person/people who bring chaos...it's a lot of noise but it serves a purpose.Chaos makers force you to see what is not working and forces you to make a change.They are here to destroy your faulty foundation. A narcissist is such a chaos maker...They are not a savior...They are not a
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Do you know what disarms a bully...***A taste of their own medicine with a reality chaser***They can dish it...but they cannot take it...They enter your world through your vulnerabilities...They weaponize your own vulnerabilities against you...If it didn't bother you...you wouldn't be bothered...and they know this.If you learn to recognize and get a strong hold over your vulnerabilities...YOU cannot be bothered...they
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Transitions...life's full of them....If you want to compare your life to others...you have to also be willing to take FULL ownership of the reasons for their grey hairs and wrinkles.My suggestion...Walk in your own damn shoes...Someone else's shoe size might be a tight uncomfortable fit...or they might fall off your feet.Like the 10th Commandment says...Thou shall not covet your neighbor’s
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Freedom of Speech...But ONLY if you agree with ME...Or else...I will fire you...Get you fired...Sue you...Make fun of you...Humiliate you...Demean you...Jeer and laugh and dance and brag at the misfortune that I have caused YOU...If you call me out on things that I have actually done...then I will act offended, lie, deflect, pout and throw a tantrum like a toddler.No
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Your Home...Your temple...When you find yourself intermingling and inviting random Devils into your 'home'...you gots to sit down and put yourself in timeout and think about where you are...how and why you got to this place in your life...YOU have invited the Devil himself into your life to disrupt your 'home'...YOU have handed your keys to an emotionally manipulative thief
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I love how you make me feel...If you are looking to feel love reciprocated from a narcissist...they are not capable.They are looking for validation from their conquests.***They love how you make them feel***And they will tell you that...in some way...but that's that!THAT is not a declaration of love...they are telling you that you are validating their needs.If you are raised
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Ghosting....By definition....The Art of Ghosting is a technique of making plans/friendships/partnerships and then abruptly ending communication...dissappearing without explanation.This behavior is juvenile and reveals a lack of emotional maturity, empathy, and healthy communication skills in the person doing the ghosting. It can be a sign of avoidance, fear of conflict, and a tendency to prioritize one's own comfort over the feelings
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Envy....The desire to have a quality, possession, or other desirable attributes belonging to someone else.For a Narcissist it's the emotion they operate from...A pathological state of envy.The pathology of envy with a Narcissist makes them unable to stop the cycles of abuse...till they destroy the target emotionally because they are envious of them.The target is forced to go full no
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Are YOU capable of 'making' people abusive...If you keep wondering why they seem to be super wonderful with EVERYONE else...except YOU...or you seem to get to experience a different side of them in public than you do behind closed doors...They are doing THAT with intention...They are trying to make you feel a certain type of way...They want you to feel
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