Living My New Reality
Text book...beginning...middle and the end....Narcissists are text book offenders...Narcissists NEVER extend a genuine apology. They NEVER take responsibility or accountability.They will admit to NOTHING even after they get called out.If they admit to ANYTHING they are claiming responsible...and THAT ain't EVER gonna happen because then they will have to deal with repercussions.Their fragile broken ego cannot handle repercussions. You made
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Froggy and Piggy...a match made in hell...If you don't understand why victims stay in an abusive situation...or in cults.Look at what this whole country is doing...Bullies 'normalize' abuse...In an intimate abusive relationship the brainwashing is slow...like a frog thrown into a pot of water and then slow simmered...until scorched to death...froggy doesn't feel the heat enough to jump out.So what
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If you have to continually try to convince people that you are a genius or the greatest...you probably ain't.People who are 'great' or a 'genius' don't go around saying so.At that point you are trying to convince yourself more than others...because you can see that no one else believes you. Chances are if you do something great or genius...we'd ALL
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The control element...Ask yourself...Have you EVER...in your entire life...lived in fear!Most immigrants have...so we are more aware of what tyranny looks like.All you German immigrants should be familiar. Fear of speaking, fear of no medicals, fear of poverty, fear of civil unrest, fear of unemployment, fear of prices so high you won't be able to manage food, gas or shelter,
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Chaos makers...If you are in an environment or with a person/people who bring chaos...it's a lot of noise but it serves a purpose.Chaos makers force you to see what is not working and forces you to make a change.They are here to destroy your faulty foundation. A narcissist is such a chaos maker...They are not a savior...They are not a
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Do you know what disarms a bully...***A taste of their own medicine with a reality chaser***They can dish it...but they cannot take it...They enter your world through your vulnerabilities...They weaponize your own vulnerabilities against you...If it didn't bother you...you wouldn't be bothered...and they know this.If you learn to recognize and get a strong hold over your vulnerabilities...YOU cannot be bothered...they
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Transitions...life's full of them....If you want to compare your life to others...you have to also be willing to take FULL ownership of the reasons for their grey hairs and wrinkles.My suggestion...Walk in your own damn shoes...Someone else's shoe size might be a tight uncomfortable fit...or they might fall off your feet.Like the 10th Commandment says...Thou shall not covet your neighbor’s
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Freedom of Speech...But ONLY if you agree with ME...Or else...I will fire you...Get you fired...Sue you...Make fun of you...Humiliate you...Demean you...Jeer and laugh and dance and brag at the misfortune that I have caused YOU...If you call me out on things that I have actually done...then I will act offended, lie, deflect, pout and throw a tantrum like a toddler.No
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Your Home...Your temple...When you find yourself intermingling and inviting random Devils into your 'home'...you gots to sit down and put yourself in timeout and think about where you are...how and why you got to this place in your life...YOU have invited the Devil himself into your life to disrupt your 'home'...YOU have handed your keys to an emotionally manipulative thief
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I love how you make me feel...If you are looking to feel love reciprocated from a narcissist...they are not capable.They are looking for validation from their conquests.***They love how you make them feel***And they will tell you that...in some way...but that's that!THAT is not a declaration of love...they are telling you that you are validating their needs.If you are raised
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